Sunday, September 29, 2013

David Essel Alive Sat, September 28th

David Essel Alive Sat, September 28th

Positive Talk Radio! David Essel Alive! Every Saturday, 6-9pm est, 3-6pm pst, XM Radio CH 246, and streaming FREE at www.davidessel.com . Proud to be a part of the Premiere Radio Network, celebrating 22 years in talk radio. This weeks guests: (**** Moving Oct 19th to iheartradio.com, every Sat. 6-9pm est!  40 million listeners and growing!)


.......Adam Markel: CEO, Peak Potentials: How to create  a  millionaire mind, to become financially independent and happy in life! 



.......Dr. George Pratt: Author- Code to Joy: The Four-Step Solution to Unlocking Your Natural State of Happiness




........Mark Eisenhart: Transformational Speaker: From obesity to addiction to depression...... to full recovery. Redefining what is possible in life!

Age differences in love and dating. Does it really matter? From our XM radio show.

Why are so many people so hung up on age differences in love?

Does an age difference of 10, 20 or even 30 years really matter when it comes to deep love?

Or even casual dating for that matter?

The text came into our XM show from a 30 year old woman who is dating a 60 year old man.

Her father, 50 years old, is fully opposed to her upcoming engagement.

She, on the other hand, feels quite the opposite, as their communication and interests are so highly compatible.

What do you think?

Watch this brief video as we discuss this sometimes polarizing topic.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AHb7udjD2zM

Love is never enough for any relationship, but if the compatibility is there, regardless of the age differences....go for it!

For 25+ years we have helped thousands of people find the deepest of love.

Contact us if we can help at www.davidessel.com or 941 266 7676.

Age differences in love and dating, does it really matter? From our XM radio show.


Does an age difference of10, 20 or even 30 years

Friday, September 27, 2013

The #1 key to great sex? Emotional foreplay, from our XM radio show.

The text came in during hour 3 of our XM radio show, asking about how she can enhance their boring sex life.

We've been together 2 years, and we are both bored!

Here was the answer  I  gave, that I have been helping thousands of couples with since 1990.

Get into deep, heavy, erotic emotional foreplay.

What? Everyone asks.

The build up for great sex must happen way before  we get into bed.

The brain is the most important sexual organ we have!

Watch this video, to see what I mean.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7O4UP-07V0

If you are consistent with emotional foreplay, there is no end in sight to how passionate your sex life can become, and stay.

We are here to help you, when you are ready. www.davidessel.com   941.266.7676.




Monday, September 23, 2013

The #1 reason dating, can be so hard. From our XM radio show.

So, why is dating so hard?

Why, oh why, does it seem to take forever to find the right person?

During our show, the above text came in.

And here is the answer why.

The #1 reason dating is so hard for most if us is because we do not know exactly what we want from love.

One minute we want lasting love, 2 months later after a string of crappy dates, we think maybe I'll just be single for a while.

Muddled intentions that go back and forth, equals muddled end results.

Yet, for those who know EXACTLY what they desire, and do not ever waiver from those desires, they will get what they are looking for.

It may still take a while, but their attitude stays strong.

They are on a mission, focused on love.

Do a self check right now. After helping single people find love for 25 years, we would love to help you.

Contact us 941.266.7676 or www.davidessel.com


Saturday, September 21, 2013

David Essel Alive Sat, XM radio guests, September 21st

David Essel Alive Sat, September 21st


Positive Talk Radio! David Essel Alive! Every Saturday, 6-9pm est, 3-6pm pst, XM Radio CH 246, and streaming FREE at www.davidessel.com . Proud to be a part of the Premiere Radio Network, celebrating 22 years in talk radio. This weeks guests: (**** Moving Oct 19th to iheartradio.com, every Sat. 6-9pm est!  40 million listeners and growing!)


...........Annie Kagan: Author- The Afterlife of Billy Fingers: How My Bad-Boy Brother Proved To Me There's Life After Death ......What happens after we die? Tune on, to find out.


..........Jann Klose, Musician, : New album "MOSAIC",  talks on Personal Responsibility and Fending for Yourself

.......Dr. Joe Dispenza- Author: Evolve Your Brain: The Science of Changing Your Mind......Time to transform your mind. 

Thursday, September 19, 2013

Emotional affairs, are they are bad as a physical affair? From our XM radio show.

Cheating, in love, comes in many shapes and sizes.

Can a flirt, a wink, a shared frustration at home with a member of the opposite sex, be as bad as actually having sex with someone else?

Watch, what happens in this very case, on this video.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=87yMCJ32tAM

These affairs are devastating to all relationships, destroying trust, even if the person is never caught in the act.

For 25 years, we have helped couples regain lost love after any type of affair.

Let us help you recover as well, www.davidessel.com or 941.266.7676.

We are ready.

Three key points on how to talk to your partner about sex and new things in bed. From our XM radio show.

The caller was frantic.

"How do I talk to my boyfriend about how boring our sex life is?  I want to do new things but I'm afraid he'll be hurt emotionally."

A very common concern in America, yet few people are willing to admit it!

Here are three key points that will allow you to broach this subject in a positive way.

1) Never talk about new sexual ideas or desires in bed! We feel way too vulnerable, and our partner may take it too personally. Bring this conversation up over coffee or while out driving in the car, or even on a long walk.

2) Always begin the conversation with points that you enjoy about your partner and your sex life, start with a positive. And yes even in a boring sex life there are things that are positive. If you have to go back a few years, tell them what you used to like that they did.

3) Now, the drum roll! Look for internet or magazine articles that you can refer to, regarding sexual toys, or different positions, etc.  "Honey, I read this article about a couple who  wanted to expand their sensual life, and they tried....fill in the blank......and loved it! I would love to talk with you about trying it too. Could we discuss this?"

We have worked with hundreds of couples over the past 25 years who have successfully expanded their sexual life, and deepened their love for each other at the same time.

For some we have recommended watching DVD's together...while others have read erotic stories to each other.

If we can help you, contact us at 941.266.7676 or visit http//www.davidessel.com

We are ready, when you are.


Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Healing codependency, in 2 powerful steps. From our XM Radio Show

The caller wanted to know why it was unhealthy to put everyone else in her life first.

She was raised that way, where her needs were not that important.

Are you happy in life? , I asked.  Life could be better she said.

And your body, are you happy with that?

Honestly I could stand to lose 50 pounds, but I have no time for exercise.

The more we talked, the easier it was for her to see she was addicted to codependency.

The need to be liked, accepted, and the fear of rejection, abandonment.

Codependents live a life of unease, fearful to really be themselves.

Watch this video, to see what I mean.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JAL5l2pLHRw

It is by far the biggest addiction in the world!

First, step one, we have to see the truth, that this is ruling our lives.

That we fear being honest with everyone, because they might not then like us.

Step 2, is to get help, and lovingly begin to set aside time for our lives, our goals, our happiness.

For the past 25 years, we have helped thousands of people heal from codependency.

Contact us today and we will do the same for you. 941.266.7676 or via our website, www.davidessel.com

Are you sexually compatible? What do you do if not? From our XM radio show.

We fall in love, then months down the road there is what seems to be a decrease in our sexual compatibility with our partner.

How and why does this happen?

A caller explains her frustration with her boyfriend who at first was highly affectionate and sexual, more than meeting her needs, but recently she has to almost beg him to have sex! She had explained from the very beginning what her desires physically, emotionally were, and he seemed to be excited at all she wanted.

She is exhausted, and wondered if it was worth  staying in the relationship.

Of course it is!.....was my reply.

But, in order for things to change, we have to see why he is pulling away, could it be a series of resentments on his part? Did he get "the prize" and now does not feel the need to please her as he did in the beginning?

We have answers, on this video.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLM6zRjJdhs

Try, try, try to work it out via open and honest conversation.

In our work, most couples can reconnect so everyone's needs are being met.

For 25 years we have helped singles and couples create deep love through our workshops and 1 on 1 sessions, and we would love to do the same for you. Contact us today at www.davidessel.com or 941.266.7676.

We are ready to help!


Tuesday, September 17, 2013

The 3 Top reasons we lose interest in sex, with our partner

Some couples after just 4 months, lose interest in sex.

Others, after 14 years, and still others after 50 years.

Or one person loses interest and the other feels hurt, or even betrayed.

But why does this happen?

On this video, you will discover the 3 top reasons this happens, and what to do next.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C3IjGVspm4A

Today, is the day to turn it all around.

If you need help, contact me at www.davidessel.com or call 941 266 7676.

For 25 years, we have helped thousands of couples regain lost interest in sex, and love.

The Key to amazing sex? It is right here! From our XM Radio Show.

So, what is the KEY to amazing sex?

That one thing that if you do on a daily basis will keep those sensual fires burning whether you are in a new relationship or one that has lasted 30 years?

A listener recently emailed me on the show, saying she wanted her new relationship to stay hot for years to come, and could I help them make sure this happened!

I loved that question......and here is the answer on this video.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7O4UP-07V0

Yes, keep it alive with this simple but important tip.

Join one of our workshops on love and intimacy, or contact us to work with David as your relationship expert, something he has done for over 25 years.

Contact us today at www.davidessel.com or call 941.266.7676.

We are ready to help.

Cheating, affairs, that are not physical? Emotional affairs, from our XM Radio Show

Far more common than a physical affair are the emotional ones.

On our XM Radio show, we had a caller who tried to defend her lunches with a male friend, that she hid from her husband, as her right to do what she wanted in love as long as she did not have sex with anyone.

WRONG answer!

Watch this video as we explain what an emotional affair is and how damaging they are.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=87yMCJ32tAM

For 25 years we have helped thousands of people find and create deep love.

We would love to do the same for you.

Contact us at www.davidessel.com or call 941 266 7676. We are ready.

3 relationship wreckers in a new relationship, that can be avoided! Dating tips, from our XM Radio Show

When the call came in, I had to sit back and smile.  Her question was so important for our million plus listeners to hear.

"David, what are 3 of the biggest relationship wreckers in the world in a new relationship?"

If you want deep love, please avoid these:

1. Saying yes, when you really mean no.  If you hate sports, do not say you love them to win your partners affection.  If they cook you a meal that you do not care for do not say "that was awesome!"  BE HONEST from the very beginning.

2. Talking about your past lovers. NEVER! Especially not in a negative way!

3. Dropping all of your favorite past times, to be with your partner. A recipe for failure, and the building of resentments.

These are 3 of the biggest relationship wreckers, and if you AVOID THEM EARLY, OR AT THE VERY LEAST NOTICE THEM, YOU CAN GIVE YOURSELF THE BEST CHANCE FOR LASTING LOVE.

For 25 years, we have helped couples and singles create lasting deep love. Let us help you.

Information at www.davidessel.com or call Jennifer 239.340.2470 or David 941 266 7676.

Monday, September 16, 2013

Why do men and women cheat in love? 3 top reasons From our XM Radio Show

Every weekend, we cover the relationship topics that really matter, in a sane way.

So, why do men and women cheat in love?

Why is infidelity so real?

Over the past  25 years, we have helped millions of people through our workshops and 1 on 1 sessions  understand this crucial topic.

And no, it is not because monogamy is created by society and we are just lust driven creatures.

Top 3 reasons why we cheat:

1. Resentments that have not been released. Forgiveness for past regressions has never occurred.

2. Due to resentments, someone shuts down in bed.

3. Addictions, to shopping, food, work, alcohol etc becomes the primary focus of a partner, pushing the other one away into the arms of another.

While simple, the above is real.

If you need help, contact us at www.davidessel.com or 941 266 7676. love, david

Saturday, September 7, 2013

David Essel Alive! XM radio guests, Sat. Sept 7

David Essel Alive Sat, September 7th

Positive Talk Radio! David Essel Alive! Every Saturday, 6-9pm est, 3-6pm pst, XM Radio CH 246, and streaming FREE at www.davidessel.com . Proud to be a part of the Premiere Radio Network, celebrating 22 years in talk radio. This weeks guests: (**** Moving Oct 19th to iheartradio.com, every Sat. 6-9pm est!  40 million listeners and growing!)

ANOTHER AWESOME SHOW!  AND ALWAYS, YOUR CALLS ABOUT TOPICS THAT MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN YOUR LIFE. 800.548.8255


.......James "Smitty" Smith- Host, In This Corner TV....What separates great athletes from average ones? What can we learn from the  pro's who come back from defeat, to rise to be champions again, and apply these principles to our lives?  Smitty shares his expertise, to inspire you to greatness. 
.......Stepfanie Romine co-author of The Spark Solution: A Complete Two-Week Diet Program to Fast-Track Weight Loss and Total Body Health.....70% of Americans are overweight or obese....time to change that today!



.......April O'Leary- Happy Mom Conference update!  How can moms be happier, wealthier and wiser? Tune in!


......Dr. Michael Murray- Stress, Anxiety and Insomnia- What the Drug Companies Won't Tell You and Your Doctor Doesn't Know .....We will find out the answers on our show!